Since this is my first post here, a little word from introduction.
I'm 33 year of age, living in Belgium and working for an international company.
I recently went to Russia for the first time (for work). I got on the plane from Brussels to Moscow, and then flew on to Omsk.
There I met up with our partner&customer to discuss matters at hand. He took me to his office and introduced me to his wife and his wife's sister (Elena). I immediately noticed her, bought otherwise thought nothing of it.
After a working day we went out to dinner, and Elena was also there. This is when we first really noticed eachother. That evening and especially the evening after things really heated up between us (although except for kissing&cuddling nothing happened) and I realised that I was falling in love. I didn't tell her that but afterwards she told me that she had feelings for me too.
We have been writing since, and she promised that she would come and visit me in Belgium. The only problem is that I have a girlfriend and she has a husband and a 4 year old daughter. I know I can't stop thinking of her and obviously she doesn't stop thinking about me either.
I would love to get to know her better, see her, and if things work out even go all the way with marriage and what not. But then reality hits, and I get a bit scared. She's married, I live together with my girlfriend. Is she just uing me to be able to get to Europe (although she is anything but a poor girl back in Omsk).
I'm sorry for the length of this post, but I wanted to paint a correct picture.
Any replies are welcome !
First of all I think you shouldn't have got involved with a married women. But knowing the situation now that you are already in the dilemma whether to take this forward. The reason this happened might be that things aren't working well between you and your girl-friend and vice-versa with she and her husband. If this is the case, you should speak up and take a firm decision of tying the knots. As this is a very crucial decision for both of you. So think wisely and only then come to a proper conclusion.
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