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Hi there,
well i have tried numerous of dating websites..All different ones that you can think...
I found that free dating websites are ok but i came to realise that the only guys/girls that use this are either tight with money because they dont want to pay for a dating site or they want a one night stand.
Then again i found a dating website where before i paid i got a chance to test it out (but could not read my messeges)
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'Hi there,
well i have tried numerous of dating websites..All different ones that you can think...
I found that free dating websites are ok but i came to realise that the only guys/girls that use this are either tight with money because they dont want to pay for a dating site or they want a one night stand.
Then again i found a dating website where before i paid i got a chance to test it out (but could not read my messeges)
Would you mind telling us what dating sites you actually used? I am always trying to hear from actual people what dating sites they think are the best and it seems like you have a good amount of experience, at least with a few of them. What did you like about those sites and what did you dislike?
I would say that no site is totally free of girls that are generically called scammers, although I have an issue with that term, in fact many girls that are labelled as scammer have distinct and different aims. There are several distinct groups
Financial scammer: this is the one that most guys are aware of, the profile that will send you pictures of some stunning girl and then after a few emails give you some delightful story concocted to encourage you to send them money, be it for Visa's, Flights, Sick parent, aunt, dog or pet gerbil..
Serial Dater: These girls are just interested in getting "rich" but dumb European/American men to come and visit them, buy nice gifts and pay for meals/nights out at places they cannot usually afford.
Letter writer: These girls are only really interested in Internet relationships where you pay to write letters, a number of the well known dating sites are full of these girls, they will write endless letters to you and either avoid meeting up with you or if they do meet up will avoid attempts at forming a relationship.. Common lines, like "I don't know how to kiss".. "I am a good girl and cannot stay with you".. "I don't believe in being intimate before marriage".. yes real lines said by girls on these sites, the last ones said by girls unmarried girls with kids!
The curious: These girls are just curious what the site is about, they have heard of stories from friends or media where other girls have met nice men online, they are typically not really looking for someone but just curious to see who joins these types of sites, but these girls also get labelled as scammers as they are not genuinely looking.
Personally I don't agree with categorising all these different types of girls as scammers. It is perfectly possible for a girl that is a serial letter writer to get an email from a guy that really sparks her interest and she goes from being a serial letter writer earning herself a few extra $$ each month into a genuine girl that has found love.
I know quite a few guys that have found girls on DM, Anastasia and AFA and been really happy with those girls and seem to be having fairly successful relationships. So to label all the girls on these sites as fakes or scammers is wrong. I would be the last one to defend these sites either, as there are a large percentage of girls that fall into the above category's on there.
Common claims from various dating sites are that " We do not pay our girls to chat" which is kind of true, they do not directly pay the girls, but they do pay the local agencies and then the local agency who wants to maximise their profit will often pay the girls to "chat"
The other claim from these sites is we cannot give you the girls direct contact details because of IMBRA, But they will sell you the girls details if you spent X $$$$ with that site.. I suggest you actually read the IMBRA act and decide for yourself how relevant it actually is to a lot of the claims made on some of the popular sites.
There are many other ways these sites use to extract more money out of you, but they are a business and you do not go into business to provide a free service, at some stage you have to cover your costs and hopefully make a profit.
So what are the good sites you can trust? well I have been travelling throughout Russia, Ukraine and Eastern Europe in general for 15 years and met lots of guys on Romance tours or holidays and they will all complain about just about every dating site out there. So what are the good sites? well sorry to disappoint they are all as bad as one another, with 25% or less of the girls they have listed genuinely looking to meet someone, having said that it does not mean you cannot be successful in finding the most amazing girl for you, just keep a firm grip on reality, you wont be able to write two letters pay $20 and find Miss Perfect in one night. It is going to take a LOT of effort, time and to a fair extent resources to find her, you may end up writing to hundreds of girls before you find one that you think is right for you. But is that any different to life in general? how many girls have you chatted too since you started high school? how many dates? were all of them genuinely looking for someone? So why should internet dating be any different?
Thank you for your posting this outline, its definitely accurate for the most part. I am wondering though why you would say you are annoyed that people just generalize about "scammers," but then you say you personally don't agree with categorizing them. Just wondering why you would do it if you don't agree with it I guess.
Next, I agree with you that no matter what agency or whatever you go to, there will be girls who do not have any good intentions and are out to use you in one way or another.
I would say the best way to approach the whole international dating thing is to go with a tour so that you don't screw yourself trying to plan a trip on your own. A lot of those reputable sites offer tours both group and single so that you can go over there and meet a bunch of different women without having to worry about planning your trip and not spending too much money. If you're serious you should check out a site with tours.
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